What Is a Letter of Wishes — and Why You Should Have One
A Letter of Wishes is a confidential document that sits alongside your will. It lets you explain your personal wishes without having to formally rewrite the will every time things change.
I offer a free Letter of Wishes with every will I prepare, because clear guidance protects families. Here's what it is and why it matters.
What a Letter of Wishes actually does
A Letter of Wishes is a confidential document that sits alongside your will. It allows you to explain your personal wishes in more detail, giving your executors helpful guidance on things such as:
- How you'd like personal possessions to be distributed
- Your preferences for funeral arrangements
- Guidance on guardianship for children
- Any special circumstances or family considerations
- Explanations to avoid misunderstandings or disputes
Why it’s different from a will
Unlike your will, a Letter of Wishes is:
- Private — it's not a public document once you're gone
- Easy to update — no formal rewriting, no witnesses required
- Written in your own voice — it reads like a note to your family, not a legal document
It can make your will clearer and ensure your executors fully understand what matters most to you.
Why I give it free
Because clear guidance protects families. I've seen how even small clarifications can make a big difference during what can be a stressful time. A free Letter of Wishes is my way of helping you support your loved ones with compassion and clarity.
When I draft your will, your tailored Letter of Wishes is included at no extra cost.
Want to chat it through?
15 minutes on the phone, free, no obligation. I'll answer your questions and you decide what to do next.
— Anita Elliott
Solicitor of England & Wales · Visit Wills · Blackpool
Originally posted on Nextdoor. General information, not legal advice for your specific situation.